Yes I am one of the blessed people in the world – instead of my girls going to daycare my Mother watches the two of them.
If I ever get into a conversation about daycare and I mention that she takes care of them I will ALWAYS hear “Oh, how lucky you are! You have no idea what a BLESSING it is to have your Mother home with your girls!”
Am I?
Pop-Quiz everyone…what is the one thing children crave more than anything in the world?
SUGAR, SUGAR and oh yes a little more S-U-G-A-R!
This is my Mom. The kids call her “Nonni Roo”. She is with her sidekick ”Little Roo” – a private moment they were sharing when they thought I wasn’t looking.

Let me introduce you to Roo’s “junk cabinet”. Like the junk drawer, but filled with a plethora of tasty treats as opposed to pens that no longer write, an array of lip gloss sans caps, stickers that no longer stick and pennies galore.
Now, how harmful coud one little cookie be you ask?
Not too bad if it’s once in a while! Not too bad if it’s after dinner. However, the cookie seen here was happily given and received at 10 am.
This is something that happens on a regular basis with Roo, Little Roo and my other daughter whom we call Beanie. See Roo’s philosophy is that if the kids eat their breakfast why not let them have cookies, M&M’s or even Doritos right after.
And if you were wondering, yes even at 8 in the morning this is allowed.
While grandparents watching the grandchildren is a blessing in more ways than I could ever explain grandparents tend to wreak havoc on good nutrition. I am a stickler for no dessert until dinner. Our house abides by the ”just one bite” rule and I am also a big proponent of the “first, then” rule.
I know I’m not alone in this battle. Grandparents tend to, well, be grandparents. Their sole job in life is to spoil their grandchildren. So when Little Roo brings Nonni Roo to the junk cabinet, Nonni Roo gladly gives in because what is better than a huge smile from Little Roo?
Nothing.
Parents and grandparents can work together though. One tactic that we’ve incorporated is the “Kids Drawer” in the fridge. Inside Little Roo and Beanie find all kinds of tasty treats they like and can have any time of the day. It’s filled with yogurt, yogurt smoothies, carrots, nuts, bananas, watermelon, strawberries, bottled water and even pudding every now and then. They even get to go to the grocery store with Nooni Roo and re-stock the drawer.
I am blessed and I know it. My grandmother watched me and I see the same bond between my girls and my Mother that I had with my grandmother.
I guess no cookie, even at 10 am, can be more important than that.